We have some very close friends who are total anti-vaxxers and the same extends down through their whole family. We've had a few, not "heated", but "warm" discussions on the subject, but I find myself constantly biting my tongue. Well, it seems the daughter's husband as well as both of their teenaged kids now have Covid. (SO FAR, she's escaped it, not sure how) I have to admit, due to the closeness of our friendship, I've had to REALLY fight the urge to say "I told you so", but what REALLY bothers me is that I'm having trouble offering any sympathy. That's just plain wrong and I understand that, but after "arguing" 'til I was blue in the face, I've developed a hard-assed, f-you attitude .... and I hate it. I've expressed my concern/sympathy to the family, but I can honestly say I don't really "feel" it. This sucks.