It really doesn’t matter, all I’m saying is that much of what we think of as fate, is really just the natural unfolding of events we might not even be aware of. Our daughter died of a rare cancer that as far as they know isn’t genetic or hereditary andcthey don’t know yet thegenetic markers for it. So yeah, there’s no simple explanation for everything. shit does indeed happen.
But what if we did know? We’re getting to a point where they do know genetic markers for diseases and conditions. The moral question is, what do we do about it and should we? Making kids has always been a crapshoot. There’s a whole pile of stuff coming up that I’m glad I don’t have to unravel before I have kids. Its a much different world, regardless of our desire to keep it the same. Do we ride or fight? Are we survivors or stragglers?
Scattershooting has been fun!
BKB