So have you ever been just crusing through life just fine ie...decent job, good marriage, kids are happy, health is relatively good...and then suddenly out of nowhere a job opens up that you'd really like to have, but requires uprooting everyone and everything to move should you get the job? Hasn't happened to me for a long time, but the wheels in my head are really turning right now after seeing an openning in a place I would really love to live. Man, making "life decisions" was a lot easier before kids.