Cappy spoke first and reminds me of the guy who lets out a nasty ol' SBD on an elevator. The first one to react and look around for the guilty party, usually IS the guilty party!
I could have eaten a bowl of alphabet soup and shit out a better comeback than that.
If we all threw our problems in a pile, and you saw everyone else's problems-- you'd take yours back.
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body. But rather, to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming...WOW, What a Ride!"