The thread with the coyote stuck in the bumper inspired this post. All of my life, I mean since my first memories, I've been a hunter. Even as a toddler I would sneak up on crabs and kill them with my toy plastic rake, while living in Bermuda. I also killed some huge poisonous toads they have living on the island. I'm sure that probably stressed my mom out when she would find out what I'd been up to. Anyway, when I moved back to the states (Arizona) just before my 5th birthday I switched to pursuing scorpions, small birds, and snakes. As I grew into my pre-teens I still hunted tweety birds but also upgraded to doves, black birds, and rabbits. Then in my teens I started hunting upland birds and big game. From then on I never looked back. Hunting is what consumed nearly 90% of my thoughts. (Women and money took up the other 10%) Hunting got me up in the morning. It gave me a reason to look forward to life. My world literally revolved around it. I thought perhaps with marriage and having children that the obsession would wane, but to my surprise it just grew stronger. It nearly cost me my marriage on more than one occasion, and I'm sure I missed some opportunities to be a better father because I was gone hunting. Hunting just never got old. It was always exciting and I couldn't get enough of it. It has taken me all over the world from Alaska to Africa, from Canada to Mexico, and a whole bunch of states in-between. My house is filled with taxidermy to the point I really don't have much room for anything else. My garage is full of antlers, horns, and animal skulls. I have a man-cave in my house just to store all my hunting gear. I've written about hunting and been paid for it. I've photographed and video taped hunting professionally as well. I'm on a couple different hunting related pro-staffs. Nearly all my closest friendships have been built around hunting related activities. People that did not ever hunt, or were against it, were of no interest to me. I've spent a small fortune on travel, guns, ammo, and licenses. All this to say I've been beyond a hard-core obsessed hunter my entire life. Nothing has kept me as driven to succeed as hunting has.
With all that said, nearly a year ago, last October I woke up one morning and had zero desire to hunt. It didn't happen gradually as I thought it would. It literally happened over night. I had gone to bed the night before with plans to hunt coyotes in the morning. I woke up and didn't want to go. I have no explanation or specific reason for why it happened. I have yet to come to terms with it. In fact, I have suffered some pretty extreme depression over it, and often still do. I never, ever, thought I wouldn't have a burning desire to hunt. The biggest problem I have now is trying to find something to be as passionate about. So far nothing has come close, and frankly, it sucks. However, I will say I appreciate BBP and Thump sharing their similar thoughts on hunting. At least I know I'm not the only one that just no longer has a the need to scratch that itch, as Barry put it. This not knowing what to do with myself, when I normally would be hunting, is a HELLUVA THING! I hope the rest of y'all make a better transition than I have.