Last warning Sunny! You leave Mrs Niner out if this. You were playing on her emotions at a time when you should have been just supportive of her needs. Not discussing with her what to say in one of your little pissing matches with someone over your stupid (yep stupid) non-quoting requirements. You have no right dragging her into that crap. Good Lord she had just lost the love of her life you really think she thought enough about the politics and history of this place to come to YOUR support.
That's all I got to say about it.
Keep playing that card and you will join the ranks of Mulewriter.